It has been a while since mama didn't write any post about one of her buddy. Alright...okay okay...Mama has a MALE buddy. A very close one. Mama and Abah loves him so much. He has been a good friend. He started as a friend of mama sometimes ago. We use to hang and chill together. Well of course during Mama's bujang day. At that time even Abah is still not around. Mama's buddy didn't even know Mama has been going out with Abah! Hehehe sorry babe! I've always love to do something in discreet. When Mama told him that Mama is getting married to Abah, he was quite suprised! NOT JEALOUS tho! But suprised! He told me..."How come I don't even know about him?!" Heh heh....That's what I call discreet!. Suprisingly, Abah now became a good friend of him and Mama thank God for this.
Okay today's post is about him. He is not married YET. Apparently he has to choose between two girls of his own. One is called Ain and the other girl called Mas. Well all of our friends call them Bini Tua and Bini Muda. In this post lets label them BT and BM. Hahahahahha pundek! Mama's buddy will be label as Abu. Kui kui kui
Let me describe BT first. Well BT is a type of girl next door. She is a girl that a man brings home to meet their MOTHER IN LAW. Well she wins that part. BT also has the charasteristics of a wife! Yes let me say it out loud and clear.....A WIFE! She knows when to call and when not to disturb while Abu is working. She took care of mama's buddy very well. Bak kata org boleh buat bini la. Kekekekekeke. But BT IS NOT NAIVE. Ok? According to Abu, BT is already in her 30s. Well I think that is one of the reason. Dalam bahasa kasar dah desperate nak kawin and nak beranak. Muahahahahha...Jangan marah ok. This matter might looks remeh for most women BUT it is actually very important. BT is very understanding when it comes to financial matters, time management and also privacy. Altho' Mama doesn't like BT that much (which mama will explain why later) but mama gotta admit if Abu marries this woman, he will have a peaceful marriage. I repeat PEACEFUL. Well if peacefulness complete a marriage, then GO FOR IT BUDDY. If not, THINK TWICE. As i said when the right woman comes later on, you are doom! Mama gotta play the devil here now. Mama doesn't whan Abu to regret choosing BT in future. Yes, peacefulness is very important in a marriage BUT doesn't heart has a say here? Don't end up building a marriage between A BLIND HUSBAND AND A DEAF WIFE! You will end up being a husband that his nerves has been extracted!
To me a marriage consists 4 major criteria which are PASSION, TRUST, RESPECT and COMMUNICATION. If one of these criteria absent, then the marriage will be dull. Abu might have all the TRUST, RESPECT AND COMMUNICATION parts with BT but he doesn't have the PASSION towards BT. Passion will maintains the spark and spiciness of marriage throughout time. In this case BT is unfortunate. So if BT wondering why the proposing part being delayed. Hence this reason. FULL STOP! I mean how can you live with a partner that you don't even have the passion towards. Passion is intimacy! Passion is romance! Passion is when you feel the vibration during touching! Passion also will LEAD TO JEALOSY when the woman is touched by other person!....SEX IS NOT PASSION! I'm saying in general regarding this sex matters. Don't get me wrong hahahaha. Trust me SEX IS NOT PASSION and sex will not guarantee the ignition of love.
There's a quote i found in the internet : Before marriage, a girl has to make love to a man to hold him. After marriage, she has to hold him to make love to him. Jangan jadi mcm tu sudeh!
Okay. Now let's talk about BM. Ini BM manyakkkk pening la. She even bagi Abu sangat2 pening la. According to Abu, BM is a naive girl. Naive here doesn't refer to her social life. But minah ni jenis tak pikir buruk psl orang. That's what I like her the most. She let Abu loves her JUST THE WAY SHE IS. Altho, she only has the PASSION and COMMUNICATION part...but suprisingly both criterias manage to bagi Abu GILA BAYANG. Muahahahhaha. Yes yes....gila bayang ok!. Simply swept his heart away. Just imagine listening almost everyday Abu mumbling about her until LATE AT NIGHT! Pekejadahnya! Dah naik kematu telinga aku mendengar! But then hey presto! Perhaps that's what we called LOVE...YOU FALL IN LOVE MANY TIMES WITH THE SAME PERSON. BM is younger than BT. So she doesn't the understanding parts, time management part! And she is very very pushy!...All benda2 remeh like taking care of a man (basuh baju la demam la and etc) she doesn't have it! Like I said....She let Abu loves her JUST THE WAY SHE IS! Simply incredible! BUT THEN....how can you build a marriage with a not stable relationship like this. Pastu she's a type of girl yang manja2 gitu.....by seeing Abu holds her hands, touches her, blushing when our friends teasing both of them simply explain everything. It can't be describe in word but let me simplify it. Hmmm....I think Abu loves her in his own way. She might be childish, selfish and whatsoever but when she's around, we simply can see the spark of their intimacy! One thing that tickles me that Abu actually blushed when we teased him. Macam sial je muka ko aku tengok!
But then if only BM can change he attitude and be more matured....Then Abu doesn't have to choose any of them because he loves BM so much. He even misses BM all the times. Jeles toksah cakap aaaa.....pot pet pot pet kat aku complaining itu ini psl BM tapi....JELES LER TU!......Sometimes I've always wonder why Abu always blabbering about BM all the time if he said perhaps it is not LOVE. Well mate! As I said sometimes we gotta sacrifice. It is kinda hard if we want to build a marriage is she keeps on having that attitude. Perhaps BM is just a sweet and remarkable fantasy for him. Which very hard for him to forget. A man needs a companion. Not a mistress during the young days and not a nurse to take care during their hari tua....Betul tak?
I seriously think Abu needs to go out with the third woman....Keh keh.....Owh yeah....about BT I didn't like her because to me she looks like FAKE! Enuff said! BUT HEY....She did a really good job in winning Abu's family. But sometimes i wonder....while she is busy winning Abu's family, BM is busy winning Abu's heart.....That part BT wins yeah yeah....she wins....but remember....don't end up marrying a zombie for the rest of your life woman! coz if it happens....mark my word.....Abu will come and see me and blaberring about the third woman in future....OR PERHAPS....blabbering about BM AGAIN!
Okay....Mama needs to rest....to be continued.....in love triangle 2 heeeeeeeeeee
A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.
Okay today's post is about him. He is not married YET. Apparently he has to choose between two girls of his own. One is called Ain and the other girl called Mas. Well all of our friends call them Bini Tua and Bini Muda. In this post lets label them BT and BM. Hahahahahha pundek! Mama's buddy will be label as Abu. Kui kui kui
Let me describe BT first. Well BT is a type of girl next door. She is a girl that a man brings home to meet their MOTHER IN LAW. Well she wins that part. BT also has the charasteristics of a wife! Yes let me say it out loud and clear.....A WIFE! She knows when to call and when not to disturb while Abu is working. She took care of mama's buddy very well. Bak kata org boleh buat bini la. Kekekekekeke. But BT IS NOT NAIVE. Ok? According to Abu, BT is already in her 30s. Well I think that is one of the reason. Dalam bahasa kasar dah desperate nak kawin and nak beranak. Muahahahahha...Jangan marah ok. This matter might looks remeh for most women BUT it is actually very important. BT is very understanding when it comes to financial matters, time management and also privacy. Altho' Mama doesn't like BT that much (which mama will explain why later) but mama gotta admit if Abu marries this woman, he will have a peaceful marriage. I repeat PEACEFUL. Well if peacefulness complete a marriage, then GO FOR IT BUDDY. If not, THINK TWICE. As i said when the right woman comes later on, you are doom! Mama gotta play the devil here now. Mama doesn't whan Abu to regret choosing BT in future. Yes, peacefulness is very important in a marriage BUT doesn't heart has a say here? Don't end up building a marriage between A BLIND HUSBAND AND A DEAF WIFE! You will end up being a husband that his nerves has been extracted!
To me a marriage consists 4 major criteria which are PASSION, TRUST, RESPECT and COMMUNICATION. If one of these criteria absent, then the marriage will be dull. Abu might have all the TRUST, RESPECT AND COMMUNICATION parts with BT but he doesn't have the PASSION towards BT. Passion will maintains the spark and spiciness of marriage throughout time. In this case BT is unfortunate. So if BT wondering why the proposing part being delayed. Hence this reason. FULL STOP! I mean how can you live with a partner that you don't even have the passion towards. Passion is intimacy! Passion is romance! Passion is when you feel the vibration during touching! Passion also will LEAD TO JEALOSY when the woman is touched by other person!....SEX IS NOT PASSION! I'm saying in general regarding this sex matters. Don't get me wrong hahahaha. Trust me SEX IS NOT PASSION and sex will not guarantee the ignition of love.
There's a quote i found in the internet : Before marriage, a girl has to make love to a man to hold him. After marriage, she has to hold him to make love to him. Jangan jadi mcm tu sudeh!
Okay. Now let's talk about BM. Ini BM manyakkkk pening la. She even bagi Abu sangat2 pening la. According to Abu, BM is a naive girl. Naive here doesn't refer to her social life. But minah ni jenis tak pikir buruk psl orang. That's what I like her the most. She let Abu loves her JUST THE WAY SHE IS. Altho, she only has the PASSION and COMMUNICATION part...but suprisingly both criterias manage to bagi Abu GILA BAYANG. Muahahahhaha. Yes yes....gila bayang ok!. Simply swept his heart away. Just imagine listening almost everyday Abu mumbling about her until LATE AT NIGHT! Pekejadahnya! Dah naik kematu telinga aku mendengar! But then hey presto! Perhaps that's what we called LOVE...YOU FALL IN LOVE MANY TIMES WITH THE SAME PERSON. BM is younger than BT. So she doesn't the understanding parts, time management part! And she is very very pushy!...All benda2 remeh like taking care of a man (basuh baju la demam la and etc) she doesn't have it! Like I said....She let Abu loves her JUST THE WAY SHE IS! Simply incredible! BUT THEN....how can you build a marriage with a not stable relationship like this. Pastu she's a type of girl yang manja2 gitu.....by seeing Abu holds her hands, touches her, blushing when our friends teasing both of them simply explain everything. It can't be describe in word but let me simplify it. Hmmm....I think Abu loves her in his own way. She might be childish, selfish and whatsoever but when she's around, we simply can see the spark of their intimacy! One thing that tickles me that Abu actually blushed when we teased him. Macam sial je muka ko aku tengok!
But then if only BM can change he attitude and be more matured....Then Abu doesn't have to choose any of them because he loves BM so much. He even misses BM all the times. Jeles toksah cakap aaaa.....pot pet pot pet kat aku complaining itu ini psl BM tapi....JELES LER TU!......Sometimes I've always wonder why Abu always blabbering about BM all the time if he said perhaps it is not LOVE. Well mate! As I said sometimes we gotta sacrifice. It is kinda hard if we want to build a marriage is she keeps on having that attitude. Perhaps BM is just a sweet and remarkable fantasy for him. Which very hard for him to forget. A man needs a companion. Not a mistress during the young days and not a nurse to take care during their hari tua....Betul tak?
I seriously think Abu needs to go out with the third woman....Keh keh.....Owh yeah....about BT I didn't like her because to me she looks like FAKE! Enuff said! BUT HEY....She did a really good job in winning Abu's family. But sometimes i wonder....while she is busy winning Abu's family, BM is busy winning Abu's heart.....That part BT wins yeah yeah....she wins....but remember....don't end up marrying a zombie for the rest of your life woman! coz if it happens....mark my word.....Abu will come and see me and blaberring about the third woman in future....OR PERHAPS....blabbering about BM AGAIN!
Okay....Mama needs to rest....to be continued.....in love triangle 2 heeeeeeeeeee
A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.
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